Sunday, September 09, 2012
Hihi.
I have decided that I should attempt to blog at least once a month. Attempt la.
I finally signed onto my bridal package today. Previously when we visited they quoted us 1.7k, and offered to give us a $200 discount to push us to sign. We didn't of course; we had just barely started the shop shopping. Today we went, and I was tired from all the visiting and research, that I was too lazy to negotiate for that discount and simply signed on the dotted line (actually CW signed, not me). Oh well. But we managed to get some free stuff thrown into the package (and a lot of stuff removed) so I guess all's well.
I was lying on bed and just thinking to myself. About myself. Had jam today and I realised that between me and S, we were working quite well together in leading the various segments. I guess my character has changed a lot over the years. I'm a High D at work, and a low D in life. I'm not sure if the low D is still applicable. At work and in church, I'm too used to people depending on me to settle things. It used to be me settling some things, and then depending on some higher authority to help me to tie up loose ends. But since I-dunno-when, I've become the person that people rely on to settle things.
My colleagues rely on me (and my somewhat experience) to help them out with their work, to the point where sometimes I find myself doing things for them. My youths rely on me for help out when they are unable to cope with ministry. In worship, my trainer turns to me for advice when he can. There's no one else for me to rely on except to be independent and dare to do things on my own.
Hence, I'm really not sure if this High D trait has permeated into my whole life. If I'm going shopping alone, I still will not approach shop staff unless I'm ready to purchase. Sometimes I put earphones in (with no music playing) so as to keep people from talking to me. Maybe it's just in situations where I'm heavily relied on, and I have no one to rely on, that I start taking the independent stance.
On a side note, besides BC, who else is reading my blog? I'm registering a higher than normal amount of page views. Thought I haven't told this address to others for ages. =P
I have decided that I should attempt to blog at least once a month. Attempt la.
I finally signed onto my bridal package today. Previously when we visited they quoted us 1.7k, and offered to give us a $200 discount to push us to sign. We didn't of course; we had just barely started the shop shopping. Today we went, and I was tired from all the visiting and research, that I was too lazy to negotiate for that discount and simply signed on the dotted line (actually CW signed, not me). Oh well. But we managed to get some free stuff thrown into the package (and a lot of stuff removed) so I guess all's well.
I was lying on bed and just thinking to myself. About myself. Had jam today and I realised that between me and S, we were working quite well together in leading the various segments. I guess my character has changed a lot over the years. I'm a High D at work, and a low D in life. I'm not sure if the low D is still applicable. At work and in church, I'm too used to people depending on me to settle things. It used to be me settling some things, and then depending on some higher authority to help me to tie up loose ends. But since I-dunno-when, I've become the person that people rely on to settle things.
My colleagues rely on me (and my somewhat experience) to help them out with their work, to the point where sometimes I find myself doing things for them. My youths rely on me for help out when they are unable to cope with ministry. In worship, my trainer turns to me for advice when he can. There's no one else for me to rely on except to be independent and dare to do things on my own.
Hence, I'm really not sure if this High D trait has permeated into my whole life. If I'm going shopping alone, I still will not approach shop staff unless I'm ready to purchase. Sometimes I put earphones in (with no music playing) so as to keep people from talking to me. Maybe it's just in situations where I'm heavily relied on, and I have no one to rely on, that I start taking the independent stance.
On a side note, besides BC, who else is reading my blog? I'm registering a higher than normal amount of page views. Thought I haven't told this address to others for ages. =P
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